Receiving Missing Needs
Many adults feel the loss of what they did not receive as a child. This could simply be love or it could be protection, encouragement or even kindness. In a Communion with Divine Mother, She gave me an idea that could restore what was missing. She said to Light Code myself with all that I needed or wanted as a child but did not receive. I loved the idea and immediately implemented it a few times over the next couple of days.
In sharing the idea with friends, more questions came up. I brought my questions to Divine Mother but immediately my attention was drawn to the memory of a Message from God in God Explain SoulMates from the Circle of Light Spiritual Center. What stirred my memory was the subject of parents. I found the passage which I will share here:
Message from God excerpt: Parents are not supposed to love their children in the way children now believe they should. That is for their SoulMate to do [note: in these Messages, SoulMate and Twin Flame are synonymous]. Even this current wave of therapy and all the blaming of the parents, this too is the misinterpreted call of the SoulMate message. People know they should have this kind of Love – a Love in which they are finally truly seen, totally loved, held in perfection in another’s eyes. Remember why I created you? So you can mirror Me, show Me Myself in new ways — another equal consciousness, looking back, mirroring perfectly. That is what your SoulMate is for you!
Theories abound that say that this is the parents’ job. “Complete Positive Regard.” These theories say that if a baby looks at his or her parents and does not see this
positive regard, then they shrivel in some way. They don’t have confidence. I say to you now, it is not the parents’ job to do. That is the purpose of your SoulMate. If a child knew that such a mate was there for him or her, it would give them that confidence. It would also allow that SoulMate to come to them quickly. There would be no mistakes, no lost relationships of “broken hearts.” Children would be “putting that signal out there” all their life so that, like a homing beacon, it would draw the SoulMate. They would not draw some other skewed relationship based on the belief that “they really don’t need anyone,” while their hearts cry out every day for true Love.
So it is not the parents’ job to love a child as the SoulMate does. Because they can’t. Two people who are SoulMates do literally share a soul. They are the yin
and yang, the plus and minus rolled into one. No one else can mirror this to another.
Reading this again opened up questions now in a different line of direction. My main one was, “How does this relate to the Light Coding that Mother God guided me to do?” I asked Her and here is Her answer to me:
“My daughter, let’s look at it this way: My suggestion ultimately was a Light Coding to connect you with the other part of your Soul. What did you not receive as a child? That perfect reflection of you. You can make a list of all that you needed or wanted and it all boils down to knowing your perfection. No, you were not guided to connect with your Divine Complement as a child by your parents, but in your case he was there and you were connecting with him although you did not know him as your Twin Flame at the time. So this Coding idea that you have shared with others is ultimately Coding for the Unification of the Soul. You can rephrase the Coding to say, ‘My perfection that I did not see as a child.’ And your mirror, your Twin Flame, will be activated into your consciousness in some way.
You have practiced often enough standing before your Twin to know that he sees deep into you. He knows you. And as you allow him to see you he activates your perfection. He restores your perfection that was lost to your awareness. He is that mirror of you. Becoming One with the Soul is knowing you as you really are. This is an inner experience of your Soul. How many parents shower love upon a child but the child does not respond? The child continues to believe in their unworthiness or undeservingness. Words do not give the experience of Soul Unity. As the Message you read says, it’s only the Twin Flame that can give that inner experience.
The seeking outside one’s self for anything is still a persistent construct of the ego. No one can give what you already are inside. You can only know your perfection when it is reflected back to you and the mirror We have created for that is the other half of the Soul. The other half is Our Love embodied for you, reflecting this perfect state of Love to each other. ‘ You are me and I am you’. This is how you were created with your Twin. Let the search for what is missing come from within.
The Light Coding I suggest was designed to open your consciousness to the possibility of being restored. This possibility leads to believing in yourself in a different way. For those who find the concept of connecting with the other half of their Soul too intimidating, then the Light Coding I suggested is a bridge. Since what is missing that was not received as a child, all the permutations of your perfection, can only be given (reflected) to you from within the Unity of your Soul, the conscious connection with one’s Twin Flame, then this Light Coding will activate that possibility – open the doorway to within. Let this be your guidance for others, as well.”
So there it is. Finding that wholeness from within is the key to receiving what was needed as a child. Perhaps a new Light Coding could be to connect all aspects of my Inner Child through the different ages to my reflected perfection of my Twin Flame. I know that in the past he has given me the Love that I did not receive from my father. All of this information brings new light to my relationship with this other part of me, my Twin. Just as God created us to see a reflection of Him/Her Self, so were we created with this similar reflection, the two parts in one being, the Twin Flame. We can only avoid this inner reunion for so long before the need to restore ourselves outweighs the fear of going within. There is where we find the wholeness we thought was missing.