The energy you align with is what you experience – Marilyn Raffaele @ Oneness of All

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ART : Expansion – by Annelie Solis


JULY 10,2016

Greetings with love from the Arcturian Group.

We come with messages of hope and deeper understanding for you in these times of violence and suffering for so many. Powerful high dimensional energies of ascension are effecting the earth and everyone on it at this time causing those who do not understand what is happening to lash out in frustration and fear, the only tools they know.

These energies are serving to expose all things old and obsolete which is creating the desire for change in all who are receptive. However as we have often said, everyone perceives and acts according to the state of their consciousness which is why you are seeing so much violence at this time. Powerful new energies are causing deeply buried fears, anger, and negative emotions to surface for the un- awakened as well as the awakened. Most are recognizing, clearing, and moving past whatever old energy arises, but the un-awakened who still perceive life fully from third dimensional standpoint act out with solutions based in duality and separation.

Everyone is experiencing the new and higher frequencies of Light, those in positions of authority as well as the “victims”. Every one’s emotions have moved closer to the surface and where there is no understanding of what it taking place on earth right now, reactions to it will vary according to levels of awareness.

Racial hatred is old deeply embedded cellular memory from past lives. It is the result of lives lived fully in the energy of separation as either the victim or bully. There can be a karmic element involved. A person with black skin today may well have been a white racist or slave owner in a previous life. At the same time it is important to know that there are those who lovingly created a soul plan to include the violent taking of their earthly life for the purpose of assisting mankind to awaken.

A racist/bully is an individual filled with and functioning from a place of fear. The racist/ bully blusters and uses violent tactics but fear is the motivator. These people often carry cellular memory of dis-empowerment, torture, rebuke, punishment, and death for no reason and are determined to never again allow themselves to be dis-empowered. This deeply held vow is often triggered into action by the smallest of incidents.

The soul contract of a racist/bully usually includes human experiences that would serve to assist him in attaining a consciousness of self love and empowerment. Once in the energy of earth, he is unaware of this soul contract as well as his desire to move into a higher sense of empowerment. Fearing his imagined power or place in society as “better than” will be lost if equality is accepted as the norm he reverts to what he knows, choosing to use three dimensional tools of force or violence in order to feel empowered.

Many, previously happy with the status quo, have become aware of the need for change and cooperation between all people in the recognition that many time honored rules for living are simply concepts based in obsolete belief systems. It may look as if the world is regressing but it is not, rather it is waking up. Blind acceptance of some law, belief, status quo issue no longer holds the power it once did, allowing people to make choices for themselves instead of being forced by pressure or guilt into conformity with ideas and beliefs not their own.

All is in and of the One–always has been and always will be because there is only One. Individuality in infinite form and variety, but always within the ONE. Thus…that which you think, believe about, or do to another you really do, do to yourself for YOU ARE the OTHER. This truth is not just a nice topic for your meditation group to discuss it is truth to be lived.

The energy you align with is what you experience. You align through your beliefs about and the energy you put into these beliefs. What are you aligning with…truth or concepts based on appearances? This is the law of attraction.

Center yourselves frequently in that quiet, still, place within and from there make all necessary choices, decisions, or actions. It is not spiritual to sit back doing nothing while spouting; “All is well, only God is…everything is illusion” because unless you have attained the full consciousness of this truth, it remains just words. However, recognizing and honoring this truth is an important first step, after which you proceed with whatever human footsteps you may be guided to take.

Some will be guided to take no outer action but to simply send and hold Light for all involved. Others may be guided to participate in peaceful protest, to sign a petition, or to take a leadership role but always spiritually inspired actions are based in love (realization of Oneness) and not revenge (energy of separation).

There are some who must be confronted by issues over and over until at some point they become so disgusted they are finally able to say “enough is enough” and it is at this point their journey into higher ways of seeing and being begins. This is happening now to much of mankind, know that everything you are observing goes much deeper than the material sense or outer appearances of it.

The first step to full empowerment as a spiritual being is to understand that empowerment already is. It does not need to be attained for it has never left you. It is the reality of your being waiting to be acknowledged. The time has come for you to see yourselves as spiritual beings having human experiences, not as humans trying to be spiritual.

The third dimensional world with all its concepts and beliefs based in duality and separation is actually the bottom rung of a very high ladder. Most of mankind has been afraid to step off that bottom rung not realizing that there is an infinity of rungs above it all leading to new and wonderful places.

Love is the energy connecting all within the One. The higher dimensional energies are energies of Love, oneness, and wholeness. This is what ascension is all about, but in order to resonate with the higher frequencies, everything still resonating on lower levels must surface in order to be recognized and cleared. Not all clearing is done on a conscious level. Much of it takes place at night while you sleep. It is issues needing conscious attention that will make a dramatic appearance in your life.

The interconnected energy of every living thing is the reality behind what the world calls love but love is interpreted according to individual consciousness. The energy of interconnectedness when interpreted through a consciousness enmeshed in duality and separation will manifest as war, rape, and abuse of all kinds reflective of the belief in separation between all living things. This sort of love is always limited and personal, expressed only to those deemed worthy.

This same energy when interpreted through a more evolved consciousness automatically and without conscious thought will manifest as impersonal caring and concern, reflecting a sense of connectedness between self and all living things. It is not based in concepts of worthiness or limited to those of the right color, language, appearance, or financial status.

Try not to judge others because every individual is only able to live out from their highest attained state of consciousness. Those living on very dense levels of awareness have no idea that there is so much more or that love is all inclusive. The process of evolution is continuously happening for all but does not happen in an instant. It is only when an individual is finally prepared by experiences to open and grow that the journey begins in earnest which for some can take a few more lifetimes.

However, world events are quickly waking many up out of their hypnotized stupor. The time is right and a majority are now ready. The high resonating energies now pouring to earth are intense and you are feeling them in many ways. Some are choosing simply to leave, hoping to come back into the new energies at a later time. This is what mankind has been asking for and is now doing–taking a collective step to the next rung of the ladder.

Ponder the things we speak of, resting often in silent awareness and contemplation. Live every aspect of normal daily living from center, loving the things you don’t really like by seeing through appearances to the reality. Try not to resist emotions of fear, anger, frustration, disgust, etc. as they arise for they are tools helping you to understand your belief system.

All is proceeding according to plan. No one ever dies. No one is or ever can be separate from the Whole, and no one is ever lost.

You are on a grand journey toward awareness of this.

We are the Arcturian Group 7/10/1


art Expansion by Annelie Solis

ART : Expansion – by Annelie Solis


Conflict Resolution: Receiving Feedback – Steve Beckow @ Golden Age of Gaia

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Conflict Resolution: Receiving Feedback

Sacred 333I’d like to begin a discussion of two things really: one is conflict resolution, and the other is growth-movement techniques of communication and conflict resolution, considered more generally. Again, we’ll need these after abundance hits us.

Suzi Maresca raised an interesting point the other day. She introduced the notion of “calling someone on their stuff” in an InLight Universal call.

That’s a growth-movement notion for not buying a person’s story but instead mirroring back to them what you see or think is happening. Usually the person is running a victim act, as we’d have said in the 1970s, and we don’t want to buy into it, as a matter of integrity. It led to a very useful exchange.

And it set me thinking. “Calling someone on their stuff” was used to get people to open up in an encounter group when time was limited (a weekend, a week). One member of the group called someone on something and away they’d go.

After the Reval, I think we’ll find that we’ll need conflict-resolution techniques.

Why after the Reval? The Reval will restore something to us we lost a long time ago: The experience of unfettered choice.

For some of us (me, for sure), that’ll let loose a volcano of suppressed childish desires, pent-up frustrations, vengeful thoughts, every bit of molten lava that’s been kept down for so long.

Why my concern? It stems from a spiritual experience I had several years ago, which I reported at the time. I was doing something ordinary when, totally out of the blue, the thoughts I was having, which were banal, were greatly magnified. I think I found a nearby woman attractive. When these thoughts were very largely, greatly magnified, I became a lascivious monster for about two seconds. And then the experience vanished.

It shook me to the core. It contained human history in one moment of time.  I was shown what it was like, in record time, to go from banal thoughts of sexual attraction to lascivious monster, to descend into the densest and darkest of realms. It was truly awful and shocked me.  I staggered when I came out of that experience.

So I look at the Reval tsunami with different eyes than many other people. I say to myself: “Steve, you should sound the warning bell. This is not going to be two seconds of unconsciousness. This is a life-changing event that people should prepare for, at least in their thinking, their intellectual knowledge.”

We’re looking at conflict resolution. In the absence of those skills, what we usually do is we (1) gunnysack (refuse to discuss things, while storing up resentment), (2) manipulate (try to coerce or trick someone into doing what we want since plain-out asking didn’t work), or (3) any other number, act, routine, racket, etc., that we have in our repertoires (see Eric Berne, Games People Play for more examples).

We’re devious, calculating, and selfish and nothing works. These are our Third-Dimensional paradigms and habits which we now need to shake.

If we lightworkers don’t shake them and don’t have a mechanism that allows us to raise issues with each other, we’ll probably end up going our own ways and not speaking to each other in fairly short order. It’ll be made shorter by the experience of abundance and choice.

We’ll hook up to stray thoughts like “I don’t have to put up with that stuff any longer.”  And the ones closest to us will likely feel the impact of our “newfound courage” first.

(Concluded in Part 2, below.)

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I’d like to suggest one conflict-resolution technique – and there are many others.

I suggest that we ask the person involved if they’d be willing to receive feedback from us.

If they agree, then the feedback would be phrased in either Perro (just the facts, ma’am; neutral) or Sedor (the language of transformative love), depending on what the speaker can manage.

If they don’t agree to feedback, at least we’ve identified that we have an issue. We got as far as we did in opening up communication instead of gunnysacking and manipulating. We’ve escaped, if even that much, from our old Third-Dimensional paradigms and habits.

To deliver feedback allows us to get a matter on the table and speeds the resolution of outstanding issues.  It’s one technique among many, I imagine, awaiting an energetic lightworker gathering them all together and publishing them so that we can have a conflict-resolution manual after the Reval.

Job Opening: Author, Manual of Conflict Resolution.

In my view, you and I need to agree that, as lightworkers, we accept the need for others on occasion to give us feedback as the first step in the conflict-resolution process. We need to accept that giving feedback isn’t a bad thing. It facilitates peace, harmony, and balance. If we don’t, we close the door on a tool that will be much-needed in our toolbox later on.

I suppose I can only speak for myself. I’m aware that one of the provisions of my soul contract is to contribute towards keeping the balance, keeping calmness, etc.  (I’m a Libran.) I know this from my readings with AAM.

Pillars like myself have agreed to stay till the end. While the ride is still going, we adjust our place on any teeter totter we’re on so that it stays level. We help to keep the ship from swaying and lurching. Later on, we help the last ones through the portal and turn out the lights. Very romantic.

In our line of work, we learn a lot about the balance point.  It’s in the center, in the heart.

The extremities of passion are fun but can be treacherous waters. The extreme needs to get ever more extreme to maintain our interest, until one has an accident or something else induces them to call it quits.

One tires of even passion after a while. One tires of most “earthly delights.” The world was designed, I’m told, such that nothing but God permanently satisfies.

If we have even a slight remembrance when the tsunami hits that, when conflict arises, it can be handled, that can prove our lifeline. We may then begin to read and consider how post-Reval conflict can be handled.

Otherwise, we’ll leave a trail of wrecked relationships, where wreckage was avoidable.

Conflict is manageable, most by communication; some by silence and a time-out.  A lack of real, genuine listening can be found to be at the root of a great deal of Third-Dimensional conflict. A great deal of our conflict therefore can be handled by us simply listening – for as long as is needed.

Those who’ve mastered conflict-resolution skills, I think, will be in high demand once lightworkers are given the means to break free of the chains of want and anxiety.